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SPIRITUAL CHAMPIONS?!
FOR PARENTS, GUARDIANS, MENTORS!
FOR PARENTS, GUARDIANS, MENTORS!
ACCORDING TO GEORGE BARNA’S RESEARCH…
Those younger than 12, have a 32% chance of accepting Christ.
This decreases to 4% chance if you’re a teen, and then up to 6% chance as an adult.
It is crucial to reach them at a young age.
- 70% of churchgoing children/adolescents stop going to church after 18
- They need more than just 26-52 hours of Christian training a year!
- To counteract thousands of hours of exposure to media & negative influences!
1) These parents used the Bible as their guide for measuring the impact of their parenting style rather than adopting acceptable cultural norms or adopting trial and error parenting.
2) Had family faith experiences, had a Biblical world view, ie as things came up, they looked up scripture and prayed together to address these issues.
3) They took seriously the Jewish mindset and lifestyle found in Deut 6:4-9 loving God, teaching His truths diligently to their children incorporating this into every aspect of their lives, taking every opportunity to teach and train Biblical principles (when you rise up, sit, walk, lie down etc)– doing nothing less.
4) These parents recognized their parenting job was their most important work with other jobs being secondary, opposite of Western culture – parenting usually works around jobs.
5) These parents had 1 parent stay at home, fighting cultural norms, very difficult.
6) They felt that they were the dominant spiritual mentor to their children, seeing the church as secondary.
7) Spent 90-120 minutes of individual time with their children daily, taking time to build relationships (typical family spends 15 minutes).
8) 100% were highly concerned with developing Godly character, for example, prioritizing the showing of love rather than just winning or what you can accomplish.
9) Felt praying daily together was important as well as reading the Word, doing so at least 2x a week (reading verses or Bible studies), worshipped regularly at home together & part of a local church…. (only 1 in 10 Christian parents pray with their children daily).
10) Parents worked hard personally to grow spiritually, which young adults reported impacted their spiritual walk with the Lord.
11) 83% set tangible and measurable goals for their children, holding them accountable, being their coach.
13) Prayed diligently for their children, especially for their salvation and any decisions related to them.
14) Began when children were a very young age.
15) They took all of this seriously, recognized that there are no guarantees, but they believed doing less can produce failure.
Training up a child is not just teaching or taking them to Sunday School, it is so much more!
In the Jewish culture as reflected in Deuteronomy above, we can see how they incorporated this kind of training in their every day lives. Parents first incorporated these truths in their own lives and passed them onto their children. Children who see Jesus lived out in their parents, will have more of a tendency to do the same!
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